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© By Jack744 for Mantality.co.za

There comes a time in nearly every man’s life when he realises that women are not going to be throwing themselves at him on a daily basis. For most of us, it’s a week after we start being interested in them in the first place. This means that anyone willing to go out with you should be treated as if they are the last woman on earth. Who knows, commit any of the following heinous dating crimes and, for you, she just might be! Read the rest of this entry »

By XY Boon for Mantality.co.za

Showering a woman with a flirtatious gesture is one way you can show your interest in her. Innocent flirting can open up new possibilities; unfortunately, bad flirting does the converse. It will have the woman run the other way so fast before you can even finish your cheesy pick up line: “Was your father an alien, because there’s no one like you on Earth!”

There are a handful of men out there who are clueless when it comes to flirting. In this article, we highlight the faux pas most men make when picking up a woman.

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While the place may just be a tad unconventional, the gym is actually a good place to expand your social network and get lucky with women. Why is that, you ask. There is a plethora of reasons: first, the women are working out, and a woman who is health-conscious and keeps herself in fighting shape is a keeper. Second, the ladies are usually clad in sports bras, which leave very little for imagination. And third, you have just had an intense workout, and your bulging muscles and poppy veins consummate a very masculine image. Knowing you look pretty good, you exude great confidence and this ups your chance of scoring with the ladies.

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1.  You’re a pussy in the sack.

No woman wants a man that just lies back passively and never makes the first move.  It’s not that women want to deal with an asshole in the bedroom, but we do prefer a man who can take charge and tear our clothes off.  It’s a biological fact that women are drawn to confident men, both inside and outside the bedroom, so don’t be shy when it comes to telling her what you want.  We want to please you, so help a gal out and be assertive. Read the rest of this entry »

Tips from the woman’s perspective.

When a woman enters your bedroom, she wants to be reassured that you know your way around it.  But it’s more than just about your prowess during the deed itself; it’s about getting her in the mood and setting the tone first.  For most women, sex she’ll never forget starts long before she’s between the sheets with you, so setting the mood for passion right from the start is the best way to get her charged up and ready to go. And what better way to help set the mood than by creating atmosphere in your bedroom?  If you do it right, she’ll be weak-kneed and tearing your clothes off faster than you can imagine. Read the rest of this entry »

In the hands of a horny novice, bra straps can maim and possibly even kill. That’s not merely exaggerating for the purpose of a more dramatic introduction-it’s based on the sorry tale of a young man who needed plastic surgery after catching a finger in the bra of his busty companion. Read the rest of this entry »

Fellas, if you’re out on the prowl for a new Missus you really need to know how not to be a dull and boring prat in conversation. Anytime you’re approaching women it’s important to remember that conversation is the best tool in your box - and keeping your ‘tool in its box’ is also recommended until things heat up in the bedroom.

It’s doesn’t matter how hot your package looks in those Diesel jeans, if you can’t keep an interesting and intelligent conversation going you can expect the word “NEXT” to be yodeled from her gob quicker than you can say “so uhm…. do you come here often”. Read the rest of this entry »

Nothing creates a hot, fired up woman teetering on the edge of a mind blowing orgasm like preparation, anticipation and a lustful wanting.

By this I mean that the passion starts long before you have her knickers clenched firmly between your teeth, and an erection that could split seams. Take the time to seduce her well before you shed a single item of clothing. Read the rest of this entry »

If you’re looking to skyrocket your pickup skills, and have the success with women you’ve only dreamed about then you need to consider the following movies which cast some of hollywood’s flirting heavy weights. The leading men in the following list of big screen titles convey undeniable confidence and a certain “alpharesque” je ne sais quoi. All of which are essential for creating a flirting energy which inevitably escalates into sexual tension, which is key to successful seduction.

Every guy will have his own unique approach and style to pickup and seduction. It’s important to discover what your own pickup style is and then try and find an onscreen counterpart to emulate. My style and approach (to pickup and seduction) has always been direct but yet witty and charming by the same token, and with just a little brazen cockiness thrown in for good measure (this list reflects that). I’ve found this works for me, and I’m not going to kid myself into thinking I could do anything else just as well.

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What if I told you there was a tool available online that would treble your success (and exposure) with women, and it would only take a few minutes to setup and maintain. You’d be quite interested wouldn’t you? Then what if I told you that it was going to be entirely free and you wouldn’t pay a single subscription fee ever. This handy online tool does exist and it’s called “Facebook” and is set to revolutionise the way online dating is conducted now and for good. Facebook is a social media site aimed at young adults, and has all the makings of the perfect online dating platform – minus the fees of course. Everybody who signs up to Facebook, creates a profile where they list things like their relationship status, interests, what music they like, current work situation, hobbies, general description etc. Plus adding friends, and sending messages to them is done at the touch of a button. You can also “poke” people which I will get into a little further in the article, which is a very subtle and powerful way to meet people.

Although it will take a little time to setup, this is going to be well worth your while and will see you meeting more women than you can shake a fully erect stick at. Please note though that facebook should not substitute going out into the real world to meet and interact with women – this still needs to be the bread and butter of your pickup efforts and is the fastest and best way to learn. And you are still going to have to meet up with these women (from facebook) in any event to get to know them better and see if they’re worthy of your time and if you’d like to discover her further.

If you were wondering what sort of women you are going to meet on facebook, you are going to be pleasantly surprised my friend as there are all sorts; from the raucous party girls to the intellectually introverted (and sometimes annoyingly opinionated) art students, sexy single moms, ambitious corporate ball-busting go-getters, sweet girls from next door, witty and sassy honeys – they are all on there and are just waiting to meet you. Read the rest of this entry »