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By Krista Weger for Mantality.co.za

We’ve all seen (and envied) those men who draw crowds by the virtue of their speaking finesse alone.  They may not be particularly attractive or wealthy, but one thing is for certain - they’ve got the magic of fine conversation to get people focused on their every word.  Although some men might have an innate charm or suave demeanor, learning how to hold a conversation is just as much a skill as it is an art.  And as for any skill, practice can make perfect.  Use the five keys below to enhance your confidence, cultivate savvy dialog, and improve your ability to speak to anyone about anything.

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By XY Boon for Mantality.co.za

It happens to the best of us. You’re getting it on with a girl you really want to impress when 15 minutes in, you lose your erection. You shamefully excuse yourself and you try to jerk off to rev the engine, but no such luck there. Even with her lips around your gems, you just can’t seem to achieve your fullest potential. It happens (even to the most virile of lads), and can be a little embarrassing no doubt.

You’ve also heard about the wonders of the little blue pill known as Viagara (or VigRX) and you thought about popping one or two. The problem: you’re still in your prime! There’s no need to frown just yet; there is a solution that will help with your sexual predicament and it comes in the form of a ring - a cock ring. Read the rest of this entry »

Whether you’re stranded on a desert island or car-camping in a local park, knowing how to build a fire can be an essential and, frankly, impressive skill.  To be honest, I find there’s nothing sexier than watching a man lay a fire to keep me warm on a chilly night by a quiet lake.  Though there’s no harm if he wants to keep me warm, too, if you know what I mean.

But any man knows it’s not just about igniting a fire’s first flames; it’s really about laying a good foundation to keep it going through the night.  To increase the heat it’ll give off as well as how long it will burn for, you’ve got to think about architecture and real estate.  Sound funny?  Here’s why thinking structure and location will help. Read the rest of this entry »

It is often said that 80% of males masturbate; we believe the remaining 20% haven’t discovered it yet. Indeed, the act of masturbation is very common and is a topic boys liberally discuss. As teenagers, whenever we had a boner, we would scurry to the nearest toilet or private room and we jerked off. Worried our parents would be at the other end of the door listening in, or worst, indiscriminately barge into our room, we wanted to ejaculate in the shortest time possible. Masturbation was always a race against time.

Fast forward a few years to adulthood. We now live in our own place — or at least learned to lock our doors — which gives us the freedom to indulge in the act. We have also discovered the technique of not rushing the strokes and not masturbate as if we were trying to yank our genitals out. Masturbation has gotten more pleasurable, it seems, but is there more to it?

The answer is (oh thank God) yes! Here are some masturbation tricks you can use to heighten your pleasure.

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Our forefathers used to work the fields until they were old and no longer had the strength to wield a tool. Our parents worked until they reached the government-stipulated age of retirement. These days, however, more and more people are looking to retire long before their twilight years. Multitudes of working adults, still young and in their prime, are now hoping for an early retirement. And they have very exciting retirement plans in store: a very long holiday; moving into a mansion where they will grow old in.

One can only retire when he is financially free; no mortgage or installments to worry about. If this sounds like one of your plans, then building your nest egg needs to start right now!

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Raise your hands if this sounds oddly familiar: You’re a self-professed gym buff and your workout routine spans seven days a week. You spend every waking hour obsessing about not working out enough. You have had numerous arguments with your other half, as she is seething with jealousy about your commitment to your body. During coitus, you have tried to lift your girlfriend like a dumbbell while in the standing position. Read the rest of this entry »

Condoms are considered a bane by most men. If not for the fact they protect us against sexual transmitted diseases, most of us would prefer not to wear it during sexual intercourse. The rubber reduces our sexual pleasure greatly. Not to mention it has zilch practicality; we have to throw them out after one use.

Of course, we kid. Condoms are a necessity, especially when it comes to one-night stands. Condoms have come a long way; from the clear, translucent material we now have many variations of the rubber. This new batch of condoms can really spice up your sex life by leaps and bounds, so much so you may even insist on wearing one! Let’s take a look at the different types of condoms we have.

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Tips from the woman’s perspective.

When a woman enters your bedroom, she wants to be reassured that you know your way around it.  But it’s more than just about your prowess during the deed itself; it’s about getting her in the mood and setting the tone first.  For most women, sex she’ll never forget starts long before she’s between the sheets with you, so setting the mood for passion right from the start is the best way to get her charged up and ready to go. And what better way to help set the mood than by creating atmosphere in your bedroom?  If you do it right, she’ll be weak-kneed and tearing your clothes off faster than you can imagine. Read the rest of this entry »

When it came to slashing customers’ throats, popular nineteenth-century barber Sweeney Todd put his faith in the straight razor-one quick slash of the trusty blade and the unfortunates were ready to be turned into rancid pies by ‘Mad’ Marge Lovett, his hoary accomplice. The customers he didn’t butcher left his shop after the closest shave of their life, and to this day whisker experts declare the straight razor to be the best a man can get. It remains highly dangerous, so approach with caution… Read the rest of this entry »

Many a man will agree that Victoria’s Secret models are responsible for some pretty impressive erections. However, a cock ring is a sex-savvy man’s secret to seam busting, knob throbbing, crotch tingling erections that not only look good but will give you more stamina than Lance Armstrong on an ephedrine drip. Read the rest of this entry »