Masturbation Techniques: The Tips and Tricks Every Man Should Know


It is often said that 80% of males masturbate; we believe the remaining 20% haven’t discovered it yet. Indeed, the act of masturbation is very common and is a topic boys liberally discuss. As teenagers, whenever we had a boner, we would scurry to the nearest toilet or private room and we jerked off. Worried our parents would be at the other end of the door listening in, or worst, indiscriminately barge into our room, we wanted to ejaculate in the shortest time possible. Masturbation was always a race against time.

Fast forward a few years to adulthood. We now live in our own place — or at least learned to lock our doors — which gives us the freedom to indulge in the act. We have also discovered the technique of not rushing the strokes and not masturbate as if we were trying to yank our genitals out. Masturbation has gotten more pleasurable, it seems, but is there more to it?

The answer is (oh thank God) yes! Here are some masturbation tricks you can use to heighten your pleasure.


Expunge what you know about five-minute masturbation sessions. If you want to achieve maximum pleasure as well as more powerful ejaculations, the cum-control technique is your answer. This may sound cruel, but the goal here is to keep yourself from ejaculating. Stroke your shaft to a rhythm, set yourself up for an orgasm and just as you are about to shoot your load, stop. Keep your hands free from your privates for a few minutes, and allow your throbbing hard penis to revert to its limp state.

Repeat this pattern of stroking your penis and stopping just before you are about to cum. Trust us, you will achieve an explosive ejaculation like never before. For the underachievers who have a problem with premature ejaculation, this is one great technique that will prolong your sex sessions!

Masturbate with Your Non-Master Hand

There is a myriad of masturbation techniques in this world, and most of them require a lot of work. Are you stacking your pillows and bolsters just so you can place your dick in between the slit opening? Are you sitting over your shower head to derive sensation from the water squirting?

These masturbation techniques entail too much effort, we reckon. Go the easy way by using your non-master hand the next time you wank. It feels different, as if someone else is handling your manhood. Besides, it’s high time your non-master hand gets a serious workout.


Sex toys for men have come a long way since the early days. They’re not just for the ladies anymore. Now more than ever there’s a growing selection of masturbators to choose from. But are they worth the cost and hassle when your hand could do the same job? Well, in short, yes. Men’s masturbators are designed to enhance masturbation and make it more fun and get you as close to the real thing as you’re going to get. Your hand has served you well up until now, but as men get older they look for more excitement and pleasure from their solo sessions. Slapping the salami, bopping the bishop (and 500+ other euphemisms for jerking off) needn’t be a dull “let’s quickly rub one off” activity. You’ll have far more enjoyment and mind-blowing sensations – you’ve never felt before – when using a masturbator. They’re also getting super advanced and combining VR technology with your favourite masturbator is going to leave you trembling at the knees, wondering why you waited this long to up your masturbation game. There are even devices featuring and automatic stroking function, like the Fleshlight Launch, if you’re really looking to take things to the next level.


Unless you have killer good looks and have been a permanent fixture on People magazine’s list of Sexiest Men Alive, it is likely you have at one point in your life experienced a sex drought. Even the self-professed Casanova does not get lucky with women that often, much as he would have you believe. So, what are you to do when your hormones are raging during a lonely night? Why, pull out your sex toys, of course!

Aptly named The Fleshlight  — and no, it’s not a handy torch or “Flesh light” — these sex toys are a single man’s saviour. Essentially a hand-held device, the top of these sex toys are shaped to replicate a vagina. Sliding your erected penis into the opening also stimulates your nerves, and you will instantly feel as if you were engaged in sex. The best news for those with a porn star addiction: many porn stars have their own line of Fleshlights Girls, which are fashioned out of their pussies. It’s almost as if you’re doing her! Get one or two for yourself now!

New on the scene is hyper-realistic virtual reality masturbation. This is a completely immersive experiences that puts you in the driving seat of your wildest fantasies, and makes for an incredibly realistic experience. The Fleshlight Launch is one such device that fully automates the experience for you. It syncs with VR content like and others, where all movement from a specially created video sync with your device and creates the same thrusting and moving being seen on screen. This combination of sensory pleasure enhances the experience tenfold, and is as close to the real thing as you’re ever going to get.

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  1. Another great way to masterbate is to use an electric device that vibrates for e.g a electric shaver but be sure to cover the sharp part of the device with a soft fabric, place this tool on your erect penise wherever it feels best and shimmy it forward and back till u ejaculate trust me it never gets old and always feels great.

  2. Just cut a hole in a long silk body pillow place that on a couch or bed get on to it stick you’r man hood stick (penis) in it haha “manhood stick”grab the end of the bed or in between the last cushion and the arm rest and hump it works really great it is so awesome I know about 100 male masterbation tecniquies and this is My absolute !!!!!FAVROITE!!!!

    • i think a small inexpensive tadpole vibrator works best just place it directly on the head,turn it to the highest setting and it goes instantly erect

  3. To create a teasing sensation on your dick. All u need is elmers liquid glue (or any other safe glue) and a cup as long a your dick (you need to be able to fit it in). First u need to get the cup and the glue fill the cup with the glue. Then get naked. Then put your dick in the cup and make sure the glue is all over your dick. Take it out and let the glue dry in your dick. When it’s all the way dry peel of the dry glue. Feels amazing!!! And if u don’t wanna use a cup then grab the glue squeeze some all over your dick and rub it in and let it dry. Enjoy!!!

  4. Does penis size matter to you? If it does not, then you are one of the lucky few who knows that while penis size is also important in sexual attraction and performance, it is not the be-all and end-all of the sexual game, much less of relationships.

  5. Hey this is embarrassing but I’m 12 and I’m wondering how to properly ejaculate to the point were I can possibly get a cum shot or just having pleasure because for some reason the only way I do it is when I just go up and down really fast and after a while it gets very uncomfortable can someone plz explain how to just enjoy it and do it properly.

  6. I’m 55 and I masterbate every day. I am married but I still love wanking. I will never stop. My penis has changed it’s look and size over the years due to my abuse, my wife says it’s ugly but I am very happy with it. Keep up the masterbating guys it’s good and healthy for you.

    • Get some soap or body wash and rub it all around your dick then jerk off but make sure every time yoou see a lot of soap at the tip of your penis qipe it off cause you get a sting if it goes in your hole but it feels amazing when you ejaculate very addicting

    • Mate maybe chill like it is healthy to master bate and have sex but that’s just too much mate you should like take a week to calm down if you beat the shit out of your fucking meat every fucking day it must be a sad hunk of shit

  7. Something that works for me is when I use lotion or lube I scratch the underside of my “manhood” with the jerking hand. I feels different and pretty good. Kinda like getting your back scratched. Well HAPPY WACKIN

  8. Try this, a spin on the flesh light ideas. Use a sports water bottle cycle type with the large opening. Two large or four small sponges and a surgical gloves and lube. Position the glove between the sponges and wrap with tissue to hold together.slide into the bottle and stretch the glove over the end of a bottle add lube and enjoy. Helps if a hole is drilled into the bottom of the bottle to stop sucktiom

  9. I’m 65 and I masterbate about every second day. I am married but I still love wanking very much. I think it will never stop. With my wife we have sex every weekend and I am very happy with it. Becouse my wife is many times not in the mood for sex, I need to masturbate during the week. I like to edge for a ½ h or so and sometimes I ejaculate, but sometimes I keep my sperm with me for more energy and i like to have the feelings of sexy lust during the day, and I keep wanking from time to time close to my orgasm, to mentain the sex lust.
    Keep up the masterbating guys; it’s good and healthy for you.

  10. I tied the first methid and it didnt go so well my cum came out more like kids volcanoe sciencs fair project and more watery im not sure if its because i needed to go pee or something. Tell me what u guys thinm


    I’m 12 and i have a question is there a type of masturbation where you rub up and down on a pole and it feels amazing

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